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I am a psychologist, feminist scholar, and writer whose work sits at the intersection of psychology, feminist theory, philosophy, and clinical practice.

Throughout my career, I have been drawn to ideas that seem settled until we look at them more closely: about moral development, sexual development, sexualization, and consent.

Now I am questioning the idea of sexual freedom and exploring what ethical obligations are asked of us in our sexual relationships with others?

Sharon Lamb, EdD, PhD, ABPP

Bio

Sharon Lamb, EdD, PhD, ABPP is a practicing psychologist, professor, and widely published author whose work bridges feminist theory, psychology, and sexual ethics.

She is the author, co-author, and editor of 12 books, four of which are trade/crossover books. Two of her books, Sex, Therapy, and Kids (W.W. Norton) and Packaging Girlhood (co-authored with Lyn Mikel Brown) (St. Martin’s Press) have received national awards.

Sharon Lamb has contributed to professional and public conversations about gender, sex, and sexuality through her work with the American Psychological Association for which she co-authored the APA Task Force Report on the Sexualization of Girls and APA’s Clinical Guidelines for the Treatment of Girls and Women. Her research and commentary have been cited by journalists in major national outlets, including the New York Times, USA Today, and Time Magazine, with coverage of her books featured most recently in The Atlantic. She also is the creator of the Sexual Ethics for a Caring Society Curriculum (the SECS-C) which has been taught nationally and internationally.

She teaches and trains counseling students at the University of Massachusetts Boston in the Department of Counseling, School Psychology, and Sport. She also maintains a clinical practice in Shelburne, Vermont, where she lives with her husband, pianist Paul Orgel.

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My next book • currently seeking agent representation

ETHICAL SEX: The Trouble with Sexual Freedom

A forthcoming trade book exploring why sex has become more “free” but not more ethical?

In an era where we are ultra-aware of trauma, and so many women still leave sexual encounters feeling confused, diminished, used, or unexpectedly harmed, why is consent still the gold standard for what makes sex ethical? How have our ideas about sexual freedom influenced our morality? Why is vulnerability around sex so hard to acknowledge?

Awards

  • Chancellor’s award for Distinguished Scholarship, University of Massachusetts, Boston 2026

  • Christine Ladd Franklin award for Significant and Extensive Contributions to the AWP 2026

  • APA Div. 17 Section for the Advancement of Feminist Psychology. Woman of the Year Award 2025

  • Florence Denmark Mentoring Award, Association for Women in Psychology, 2023

  • New England Book Award finalist, 2019

  • The Kuhmerker Career Award, Association for Moral Education, 2018

  • “The New Civics” Spencer Foundation Grant, $40,000 for “Sex Education as a Form of Civics Education,” 2013

  • SSTAR Book Award (Society for Sex Therapy and Research) 2007

  • Books for a Better Life Award in parenting books category, NY MS Society’s Books for a Better Life, 2007